The world of dating has shifted dramatically over the past few years, especially with the rise of social media and dating apps.
Gone are the days when meeting someone new involved chance encounters at coffee shops or being introduced through mutual friends.
Today, swiping right or left on your phone is the norm for new-age romance. Along with this digital revolution, a whole new set of dating trends has emerged, each more interesting and quirky than the last.
From ghosting (suddenly cutting off all communication without explanation) to breadcrumbing (sending flirty but non-committal messages), the dating lexicon has expanded to capture the ever-evolving dynamics of modern relationships.
Millennials and Gen Z have embraced these terms, using them to define their experiences with love and connection. And now, there’s a new term making waves in the dating world: Freak Matching.
WHAT IS FREAK MATCHING?
Freak Matching, a term that’s been gaining traction recently, is all about finding someone who matches your unique interests, quirks and lifestyle.
The idea centres around building a connection with someone who not only shares your values, but also indulges in the same hobbies and passions, no matter how niche or unconventional they may be.
Content creator Morgan Pate, in a conversation with the New York Post, explained the idea behind the trend, saying, “When you say you want someone to ‘match your freak,’ you’re wanting someone to go day by day with you and do the things that you love doing, but together.”
Interestingly, while the term may have an eyebrow-raising name, it’s often used in a more wholesome context than you might expect.
As Pate and other creators humorously described in her viral TikTok video, matching her freak would involve a day of “great coffee, working out, tanning, taking a shower, and then unwinding by watching ‘Sex And The City’ in cute pajamas”.
NEW DATING TREND FOR 2025?
The dating app industry has already taken note of this emerging trend. Plenty of Fish, one of the biggest dating platforms, has predicted that Freak Matching will be one of the hottest dating trends of 2025.
The app’s spokesperson explained that more singles are focusing on compatibility beyond physical attraction, looking for deeper connections based on shared experiences and long-term compatibility.
This isn’t surprising, given the data we have on modern dating. According to a 2019 report by Pew Research, 30% of United States adults have used dating apps and many individuals now prioritise emotional and intellectual compatibility over superficial attributes.
Match.com’s 2023 Singles in America survey also found that 84% of singles are looking for partners with shared hobbies and interests, further supporting the rise of trends like Freak Matching.
WHY IS FREAK MATCHING SO POPULAR?
One reason for Freak Matching’s growing appeal is the emphasis on authenticity.
Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and senior researcher at the Kinsey Institute, has long studied what makes relationships work.
In her research, Fisher notes that compatibility is about more than just attraction — it’s about finding someone whose life and values align with your own.
This is exactly what Freak Matching taps into: the idea of finding someone who not only accepts, but appreciates your quirks. – IOL Lifestyle
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