In an era where male participation in higher education is dwindling, and an increasing number of households are led by single parents, the absence of proactive male figures becomes a societal shortcoming.
Men, as role models, can help shape the destinies of their households, influencing their daughters, and moulding the character of their sons.
Statistics indicate that single parent households, more so those led by women, contribute significantly to food insecurity.
This underlines the need for both parents to lead households in which children grow up learning from the example of their parents.
The Namibian Demographic and Health Survey points to a decline in children growing up with both parents, particularly fathers.
In short, single-led households are prevalent in Namibia.
Our country has a low marriage rate, a substantial number of children born outside wedlock, and a prevalent culture of cohabitation.
The importance of father figures, biological or not, cannot be overstated.
Fathers can influence four key aspects of children’s lives: Establishing moral authority, conferring identity, providing security and affirming potential.
VALUES
During a recent #BeFree ’Majitah Tuesday’ – sessions which focus on challenges men face – participants discussed insights from a Cassie Carstens’ book, ‘The World Needs a Father: Helping Fathers Bring Heaven Home’.
Carsten believes “the most fundamental flaw in society is fatherlessness”.
Research suggests a direct correlation between absent fathers and high levels of delinquency and youth crime.
A son brought up to respect authority at home, often reflects those values in society.
Society, which is often quick to question a child’s misbehaviour, often enquires about parentage (“whose child is that?”).
A father’s involvement can also contribute to better emotional, academic, social and behavioural outcomes for children.
Psychologist Erik Erikson highlights childhood development as a process where children gain a sense of personal identity through their interactions.
Fathers, as key players, contribute to identity development and can instil values in their children by engaging with them and authentically being present.
SECURITY
Children growing up with fathers can experience a sense of protection and find solutions to societal challenges with their parents.
Fathers can offer emotional security and guidance that contribute to a child’s overall well-being.
Having a present father can help mould children into stable and strong individuals, influencing the type of man a boy becomes.
They can help provide a sense of protection and guidance for their daughters, helping them avoid searching for love in the wrong places and filling the void of absence.
As encouragers, fathers can uplift their children and affirm their potential.
In an era where societal dynamics are rapidly evolving, acknowledging and reinstating the role of fathers becomes an imperative.
They can contribute to shaping the future of our society – impacting one child at a time.
- David Junias is a consultant for the #BeFree Movement of the One Economy Foundation. The article is written in his personal capacity; davidjunias@gmail.com
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